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My 30th Letter: Clearing The Clutter Cleaning Up Our Self-talk.
We are often told that self-talk is essential. Still, I believe it's time we understood the impact it has on everything we do & how we feel.
Jan 5, 20255 min read


My 29th Letter: New Year, New Lessons To Share: Clearing My Clutter to Help You Clear Yours
Through 2023 and 2024, I realised that I'd never figure out what I wanted if I didn't start clearing my mind. My "get fit, lose weight" goal
Dec 29, 20244 min read


My 28th Letter: A Christmas Letter
What have I learnt in the last thirty or so Christmases that I can pass on to you this year?
Dec 19, 20244 min read


My 27th Letter: Focusing The Lense On The Leading Lady
Ever look in the mirror and get a shock? You might say, "Yes, Vikki, all the time!" But for me, this moment was different.
Dec 15, 20244 min read


The Multitasking Myth: A Call for Female Leaders to Rethink Productivity
As women in leadership, we often find ourselves balancing a demanding mix of professional, personal, and emotional responsibilities.
Oct 16, 20243 min read


My 21st Letter: The Multitasking Myth
Lately, I've noticed how much we pride ourselves on our multitasking ability. Yet, I see a buzzing cycle of stress.
Oct 13, 20245 min read


The Evolution of Identity: Embracing Who We Become Over Time
At 42, I reflect on the various shifts that have shaped me and—like many of you—that the evolution of identity is never truly finished.
Oct 9, 20243 min read


My 20th Letter: How Our Identity Shifts As We Age.
How does our identity shift as we age? I am 42 now (honestly, I needed a calculator to work that out!), and I know I'm still young.
Oct 6, 20245 min read


Reflecting On The Power of Simplicity: A Science-Backed Approach to Reclaiming Your Life
In our fast-paced world, it can feel like life is slipping through our fingers.
Oct 2, 20245 min read


My 19th Letter: A Reflection On Personal Growth And What I Have Learnt in a Year
Driving around the past few days, I’ve noticed that not much changes when you leave a place for a year. But I've changed.
Sep 29, 20244 min read


Finding Calm in a Chaotic World: A Modern Take on Spiritual Connection
We talk about self-care like it's a trendy buzzword, yet how many of us honestly know what it means to feel grounded and at peace?
Sep 25, 20244 min read


Building Confidence: A Journey, Not a Destination
When we think of building confidence, it often seems like a distant destination—something we hope to reach one day.
Sep 11, 20244 min read


My 16th letter: Confidence vs Competence
In NLP, there are four stages of learning, and this is where we transition from feeling competent to genuinely confident in our tasks.
Sep 8, 20245 min read


Rewriting Our Stories: The Power of Personal Narratives
We all carry stories within us. These stories shape our understanding of the world, define our identities, and influence how we interact.
Sep 4, 20243 min read


My 15th letter: Our internal narrative - what story do you have running on repeat?
Think of our internal narratives as mini-movie scenes constantly running in the background—shaping and creating our realities.
Aug 31, 20245 min read


The Language I Use: How the Words We Choose Shape Our Self-Perception
Language isn't just about the words we say; it's about the beliefs they carry. Often, these beliefs are rooted in outdated narratives.
Aug 28, 20243 min read


My 14th letter: The language you wear - let's talk about your "word wardrobe."
I like to describe our internal and external language as a personal "word wardrobe".
Aug 26, 20244 min read


My 13th letter: Is my need for control creating my worthiness?
Recently, the word control has come up a few times—whether it's a need for control in our plans for the caravan, the future, or daily chores
Aug 19, 20245 min read


My 12th letter: What is the Secret to a Great Marriage?
We had a truly epic weekend. This experience has made me reflect deeply on couples' dynamics and the secret to a great marriage.
Aug 13, 20245 min read


My 11th letter: Is it too late to feel a connection?
When do I feel connected? Who do I feel connected to? And what has to happen for me to feel it? And, can we actually 'feel' a connection?
Aug 5, 20245 min read
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