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My 29th Letter: New Year, New Lessons To Share: Clearing My Clutter to Help You Clear Yours
Through 2023 and 2024, I realised that I'd never figure out what I wanted if I didn't start clearing my mind. My "get fit, lose weight" goal
Dec 29, 20244 min read


The Evolution of Identity: Embracing Who We Become Over Time
At 42, I reflect on the various shifts that have shaped me and—like many of you—that the evolution of identity is never truly finished.
Oct 9, 20243 min read


My 20th Letter: How Our Identity Shifts As We Age.
How does our identity shift as we age? I am 42 now (honestly, I needed a calculator to work that out!), and I know I'm still young.
Oct 6, 20245 min read


Finding Calm in a Chaotic World: A Modern Take on Spiritual Connection
We talk about self-care like it's a trendy buzzword, yet how many of us honestly know what it means to feel grounded and at peace?
Sep 25, 20244 min read


My 18th letter: Spiritual Path - Finding Your Calm
I realised I was experiencing a spiritual disconnect from my sense of calm. I hadn't been filling up my soul cup recently.
Sep 22, 20243 min read


Mind Body Connection: The Power of Listening to Your Body and Mind
In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, we often ignore the quiet signals from our bodies.
Sep 18, 20244 min read


Building Confidence: A Journey, Not a Destination
When we think of building confidence, it often seems like a distant destination—something we hope to reach one day.
Sep 11, 20244 min read


My 16th letter: Confidence vs Competence
In NLP, there are four stages of learning, and this is where we transition from feeling competent to genuinely confident in our tasks.
Sep 8, 20245 min read


Rewriting Our Stories: The Power of Personal Narratives
We all carry stories within us. These stories shape our understanding of the world, define our identities, and influence how we interact.
Sep 4, 20243 min read


The Language I Use: How the Words We Choose Shape Our Self-Perception
Language isn't just about the words we say; it's about the beliefs they carry. Often, these beliefs are rooted in outdated narratives.
Aug 28, 20243 min read


My 12th letter: What is the Secret to a Great Marriage?
We had a truly epic weekend. This experience has made me reflect deeply on couples' dynamics and the secret to a great marriage.
Aug 13, 20245 min read


My 11th letter: Is it too late to feel a connection?
When do I feel connected? Who do I feel connected to? And what has to happen for me to feel it? And, can we actually 'feel' a connection?
Aug 5, 20245 min read


My 8th letter: Am I lucky, or am I intentionally building a fulfilling life?
I have been reminded this week just how incredible my fulfilling life is. I will be honest, I was going to use the word "lucky".
Jul 14, 20244 min read


My 7th letter: Who Do I Want to Be?
I knew I would write about the BE part of NLP's BE DO HAVE model (who do I want to be?), and the day has finally arrived.
Jul 7, 20244 min read


My 6th letter: Imprisoned by my ‘To-Do’ List.
I could only be described as "a nervous list wreck." I was so worried about my to-do list, and the thought of not ticking everything off mad
Jun 30, 20245 min read


Reminder: It’s never too late to be what you might have been - the myth of unfulfilled potential.
Many of us wander through life with a nagging feeling of unfulfilled potential, like a smartphone running on low power mode.
Mar 5, 20242 min read


The Under-appreciated Value of Life Coaching in Personal Development
Despite the ICF's reports of the coaching industry's growth, the uptake of life coaching is surprisingly low.
Feb 26, 20243 min read


Mind Filters - Deletion, Distortion, and Generalisation
Question: Why do we view and see the world differently from other people? Why do we sometimes take on, feel, think and observe...
Jun 24, 20233 min read


Pens To The Ready - Five Essential Qualities To Finding A Life Coach
Choosing the right life coach can supercharge your quest for personal growth. This guide will help you navigate your search, outlining...
Jun 3, 20232 min read


To the busy and overwhelmed. Why do we move from a COOL to a CRAP DAY so quickly?
How easy is it to suddenly feel less than? Without even knowing it, all your hard work in personal growth has thrown you back into your...
May 26, 20233 min read
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