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Through uncertainty, trust the instruments
There seems to be a feeling in the air at the moment. I hear it in conversations with friends and family. I see it on LinkedIn and across social media. I hear it from business owners and people in workplaces. Life feels hard.
Sep 88 min read


Change is inevitable. Our relationship with it is the problem.
When life is good, the team is performing, the business is growing, and things feel stable, the mere suggestion of change can trigger genuine anxiety. Yet when things are difficult, performance is declining, culture is suffering, and the team feels stuck, change is the very thing everyone is quietly craving.
Aug 76 min read


Purpose & Happiness - What I noticed when I looked up.
We often focus so much on either the future or the past. The past of what was and the future of what if… When we focus too much on the future, we can become overwhelmed and anxious. Now, I love the big picture. I love being able to see what we want to achieve and where we are heading, but what I was forgetting was all the amazing steps we are already taking towards that big goal.
Jul 267 min read


When Social Anxiety Makes You Want to Run for the Door
I have always been described as an extrovert. I get involved in conversations, laugh, and tell stories, but what the outside world doesn't see is my internal narrative. This battle goes on when I am going to meet people I don't fully know, join a networking group, or go into a place I haven't been before.
Jul 216 min read


Anxiety and the Higher Purpose of Fear
There has been an interesting feeling around. I hear many describe it as "let's just get through this", while others feel a sense of the unknown, the question of "what will ever happen next?" tends to be the tone.
Jul 138 min read


Chasing Enough - Impossible Equations and Expectations
I was thinking about the sentence I'd just created and the fact that I'd put two ideas together that couldn't actually exist at the same time. I had created an impossible equation, and yet I'd been asking my brain to solve it every single day.
Jul 77 min read


You're Not Just Watching the Noise. You're In It (How to Step Out of Drama Cycle and Take Your Power Back)
If you feel like the state of the world is living inside your head, it is not a personal failing, it is a pattern called the Drama Cycle. Emotionally charged information is designed to pull you into one of three roles: victim, persecutor, or saviour.
May 57 min read


Why Uncertainty Feels So Real Right Now (And What You Can Actually Control)
If you're feeling flat, directionless, or quietly anxious despite nothing being obviously wrong, you're experiencing a common response to collective uncertainty, and it has a name. Here's what's happening and how to find your footing again.
Apr 226 min read


Building Boundaries for Mental Clarity
When did "no" become a dirty word Somewhere along the way, we started to believe that being kind meant being constantly available.
Apr 78 min read


Social Emotions: Understanding Guilt
Over the last few weeks, I’ve been writing about what I call our survival emotions. We’ve explored anger, sadness and fear; these emotions are designed to protect us, alert us and help us navigate the world around us. They are powerful, primal and deeply human. Now we move into the next layer. The social emotions. This is where it gets really interesting, because these emotions are not so much about life or death. They are not about whether the berry is poisonous or whether t
Mar 77 min read


Survival Emotions: Fear
There is a very particular moment that comes just before we stretch ourselves. It rarely arrives loudly. It begins as a tightening somewhere in the body, a subtle shift in the breath, a flicker of doubt that feels almost logical.
Mar 28 min read


A Letter About Change and Uncertainty, Home, and Learning to Trust the Middle
Dear you, I've been sitting with this letter for a few days now. There is so much I want to say. So many thoughts swirling around in my head and so many feelings that have been rising and falling over the past couple of weeks, and yet… every time I've tried to write, the words haven't quite landed. Not because nothing has been happening, but because everything has been happening. I think, if I'm honest, I've been in survival mode. Just doing what needed to be done: packing, d
Jan 306 min read


Hustle culture: what badge of honour are we really wearing?
The appeal of hustle is real. For many, it represents drive, resilience, and the willingness to do what others will not. It is how careers are built, businesses are saved, and opportunities are created when there is little certainty. In that sense, hustle deserves respect. But it is worth asking whether the version of hustle we glorify today still serves us, or whether it has morphed into something unsustainable.
Nov 21, 20256 min read


When Burnout Catches You Off Guard
A couple of weeks ago, something happened to me. I sat at my desk staring at the screen, fingers hovering over the keyboard but not typing, not really doing anything. I felt physically stuck, my body wouldn’t move, my head was spinning, thoughts racing like they were chasing each other in circles: “I can’t do this. I’m not good enough. I’m so tired. I should know better. I don’t look great. I don’t feel great. I am failing at everything”
Aug 29, 20256 min read


Calm in the chaos
So, when did the innocence of our internal language shift? When did it go from cuddles, milk, fairies, and pretend lands to:
Am I good enough?
Why don’t they like me?
How could I have been so stupid?
They know I didn’t know the answer, now I feel terrible…
Come on, don’t be so lazy
May 13, 20256 min read


Your Body Is Not Betraying You. It’s Begging You to Listen.
Our bodies don't lie. They're not trying to sabotage us; they're trying to speak to us. And it may be time to listen to your body.
Apr 8, 20255 min read


Building Lasting Calm in the Busyness
How do we shift our mindset to cope with high-volume work and thrive? People are collapsing under the weight of it all, unable to handle
Mar 22, 20255 min read


Decision Fatigue and Simplifying Life.
Over the last few months, I've been preparing for an exam to further my accreditation in the coaching industry, the ACC Exam, which...
Mar 17, 20255 min read


Patterns of Procrastination and Perfectionism.
So, after feeling completely burnt out, I picked myself back up and started working through the pattern. How did I get myself into this.
Mar 4, 20255 min read


Understanding the Tools to Take Away Mental Clutter
The Three Tools For Mental Clutter I Use Daily. Here's what I've learned: mental clutter doesn't just disappear.
Feb 25, 20256 min read
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