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Survival Emotions: Understanding Anger as Wisdom, Not a Problem
Anger is often the most reactive, volatile, and misunderstood emotion. It is the emotion most likely to push us into defensive behaviour, protective reactions, emotional outbursts, withdrawal, guilt, and regret. It is often the emotion that leaves us afterwards thinking, “Why did I react like that?” or “That wasn’t how I wanted to handle that.”
3 days ago8 min read


Welcome to Real Work on Emotions
Over the next few weeks, I'm going to have a deeper conversation and work on emotions. What they are. Why do they exist?
Feb 76 min read


A Letter About Change and Uncertainty, Home, and Learning to Trust the Middle
Dear you, I've been sitting with this letter for a few days now. There is so much I want to say. So many thoughts swirling around in my head and so many feelings that have been rising and falling over the past couple of weeks, and yet… every time I've tried to write, the words haven't quite landed. Not because nothing has been happening, but because everything has been happening. I think, if I'm honest, I've been in survival mode. Just doing what needed to be done: packing, d
Jan 306 min read


What if the most successful thing you could do for your relationship… is learn to truly connect?
There are so many conversations we're not having. The quiet ones. The ones that swirl around at night when the house is finally still. It's not just the silent drift that can grow between two people in a relationship. It's the way we slowly stop seeing ourselves, and how that quiet erosion changes how we see them, too.
Jan 268 min read
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