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The Quiet Power of Confidence
Confidence. What is it, really? Is it that magical fairy dust you spot in people who can talk to strangers, light up a room, make everyone laugh, and own a dinner table in seconds? Or is it the quieter kind?
Apr 28, 20255 min read


Untangle the past and rediscover your identity.
So here I am, writing about how our past shapes our current or old identities and how to break away and rediscover your true identity.
Apr 21, 20255 min read


One tiny moment - a lesson from the world of retail and beauty.
When I first saw my mum put on her lipstick, I noticed something change.
Her shoulders lifted, just slightly, but it was enough. A sparkle
Apr 14, 20257 min read


Building Lasting Calm in the Busyness
How do we shift our mindset to cope with high-volume work and thrive? People are collapsing under the weight of it all, unable to handle
Mar 22, 20255 min read


Clear Space. Clear Mind.
Now, anyone who knows me well would describe my house as tidy, neat, clean, and, let's be honest, stage-ready. It's friendly and...
Feb 18, 20254 min read


The Invisible Weight of Mental Clutter
I was frazzled. I felt this huge weight settle on me—the weight of expectation. The "good mum" glow I'd been basking in? Gone.
Feb 5, 20255 min read


Why Mental Clutter Matters: Mental Clutter Defined
What is the cost of mental clutter? It has taken me four years to build up the courage to share this story and talk about how it all began.
Jan 27, 20256 min read


My 32nd Letter: Nourishing the Body to Feed the Mind
Recently, my focus has shifted to understanding why food plays a pivotal role in my life - how I can better nourish my body to feed my mind
Jan 20, 20253 min read


My 31st Letter: Imposter Syndrome
When I reflect on imposter syndrome—when I feel it—it's usually tied to fear: fear of judgment, fear of not fitting in, fear of looking...
Jan 12, 20255 min read


My 30th Letter: Clearing The Clutter Cleaning Up Our Self-talk.
We are often told that self-talk is essential. Still, I believe it's time we understood the impact it has on everything we do & how we feel.
Jan 5, 20255 min read


My 27th Letter: Focusing The Lense On The Leading Lady
Ever look in the mirror and get a shock? You might say, "Yes, Vikki, all the time!" But for me, this moment was different.
Dec 15, 20244 min read


My 26th Letter: Raising Your Own Inner Children.
This week, I want to discuss raising confident and brave children. But the truth is that this reality only hits once you have your own.
Dec 8, 20244 min read


Internal Mirrors: Finding Clarity in a Chaotic World
I've been reflecting on what happens when our focus turns inward and we become so absorbed in our needs and worries that we forget the world
Oct 24, 20243 min read


The Language I Use: How the Words We Choose Shape Our Self-Perception
Language isn't just about the words we say; it's about the beliefs they carry. Often, these beliefs are rooted in outdated narratives.
Aug 28, 20243 min read


My 14th letter: The language you wear - let's talk about your "word wardrobe."
I like to describe our internal and external language as a personal "word wardrobe".
Aug 26, 20244 min read


My 11th letter: Is it too late to feel a connection?
When do I feel connected? Who do I feel connected to? And what has to happen for me to feel it? And, can we actually 'feel' a connection?
Aug 5, 20245 min read


My 3rd letter: Where did this fear of failure come from?
I found a large part of my thinking revolving around the fear of failure. Many conversations have come up about it, and it got me wondering.
Jun 9, 20245 min read


Reminder: It’s never too late to be what you might have been - the myth of unfulfilled potential.
Many of us wander through life with a nagging feeling of unfulfilled potential, like a smartphone running on low power mode.
Mar 5, 20242 min read


Clear Thoughts, Brighter Paths: Four Steps to Mental Clarity
Gaining mental clarity is less about quieting the mental noise. Here's a practical approach to finding clarity amidst the chaos.
Jan 4, 20243 min read


Decoding the Layers of Fear: Understanding its Three Levels
Fear. It's an emotion so potent that it can cripple even the strongest among us. However, what if we told you that understanding fear's...
Sep 7, 20233 min read
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