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When Leadership Hurts: A Truth We Don’t Talk About
This week I got pissed off, and I mean really pissed off.
I've been listening to incredible women who are strong, fiery, and just bloody amazing, and they're feeling caught up in knots and twists. They're unsure, worried, panicked, and they feel like their only option is maybe to leave something they've worked so hard for. Their confidence is low. They can't focus.
Jun 20, 20257 min read


We're married... but are we still connected?
Jorge and I have been married for 16 years and have been together for 22. Some of you reading this might think, that's baby love! While others might wonder how we even got here. But over the last two weeks, I've been reflecting on love and what it all means. Perhaps it's the conversations I've been having with friends and clients that brought it up and made me wonder: what does it all mean?
Jun 13, 20256 min read


Holding onto HOPE
This week, I’ve been sitting with a word. It’s not a big or fancy one, just a simple four-letter word that has been with me more times than I can count. HOPE.
Jun 10, 20254 min read


50 letters. 50 lessons in life. And a poem from my heart.
Fifty weeks of showing up to the page and myself. Fifty weeks (fifty lessons) of sharing the tangled thoughts, hidden fears, messy contradictions, and quiet revelations that come with being a woman, a mother, a partner, a coach, and most of all… a human.
May 27, 20255 min read


Quieting the Noise – When Comparison Is the Chaos
I wonder if we’re part of the problem and if we are the ones creating the drama and the mental "comparison chaos" in our heads?
May 19, 20253 min read


Calm in the chaos
So, when did the innocence of our internal language shift? When did it go from cuddles, milk, fairies, and pretend lands to:
Am I good enough?
Why don’t they like me?
How could I have been so stupid?
They know I didn’t know the answer, now I feel terrible…
Come on, don’t be so lazy
May 13, 20256 min read


Finding Joy in Simplicity
The other day I walked into my local fruit and veg shop and found perfectly fresh strawberries on sale for $1.42. Jackpot! That little thrill reminded me that joy doesn’t need a big stage. And honestly, what’s ever truly perfect?
May 7, 20254 min read


The Quiet Power of Confidence
Confidence. What is it, really? Is it that magical fairy dust you spot in people who can talk to strangers, light up a room, make everyone laugh, and own a dinner table in seconds? Or is it the quieter kind?
Apr 28, 20255 min read


One tiny moment - a lesson from the world of retail and beauty.
When I first saw my mum put on her lipstick, I noticed something change.
Her shoulders lifted, just slightly, but it was enough. A sparkle
Apr 14, 20257 min read


Your Body Is Not Betraying You. It’s Begging You to Listen.
Our bodies don't lie. They're not trying to sabotage us; they're trying to speak to us. And it may be time to listen to your body.
Apr 8, 20255 min read


Emotional Clutter: Letting go of the past.
If we hold onto our past, how can we ever learn to live in our future? This is a question I ask myself constantly.
Mar 11, 20254 min read


Patterns of Procrastination and Perfectionism.
So, after feeling completely burnt out, I picked myself back up and started working through the pattern. How did I get myself into this.
Mar 4, 20255 min read


My 31st Letter: Imposter Syndrome
When I reflect on imposter syndrome—when I feel it—it's usually tied to fear: fear of judgment, fear of not fitting in, fear of looking...
Jan 12, 20255 min read


My 29th Letter: New Year, New Lessons To Share: Clearing My Clutter to Help You Clear Yours
Through 2023 and 2024, I realised that I'd never figure out what I wanted if I didn't start clearing my mind. My "get fit, lose weight" goal
Dec 29, 20244 min read


My 27th Letter: Focusing The Lense On The Leading Lady
Ever look in the mirror and get a shock? You might say, "Yes, Vikki, all the time!" But for me, this moment was different.
Dec 15, 20244 min read


My 26th Letter: Raising Your Own Inner Children.
This week, I want to discuss raising confident and brave children. But the truth is that this reality only hits once you have your own.
Dec 8, 20244 min read


Internal Mirrors: Finding Clarity in a Chaotic World
I've been reflecting on what happens when our focus turns inward and we become so absorbed in our needs and worries that we forget the world
Oct 24, 20243 min read


My 11th letter: Is it too late to feel a connection?
When do I feel connected? Who do I feel connected to? And what has to happen for me to feel it? And, can we actually 'feel' a connection?
Aug 5, 20245 min read
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