top of page


How to Spot the Silent Ways You’re Measuring Your Worth
The lunch tin isn't just a container of food. It's a mirror. Of our intentions. Our pressures. Our need to nourish, yes, but also to prove that we have 'done it', that we are good, that we are enough.
Jul 25, 20254 min read


The Time Triage Trick That Changed Everything
I know what it’s like to hold everything so tightly that you start to lose your shape. To smile and say, “I’ve got it,” when really bits of you are leaking out quietly in the form of snappy words, heavy sighs, evil glances at your partner, or that ever-growing feeling of resentment of life you don’t want to admit.
Jul 18, 20253 min read


What Your Body Language Says Before You Speak (and Why It Matters More Than You Think)
Stress shows up in tense shoulders. Anxiety lives in a clenched jaw. Anger tightens the fists. Love flutters through our tummies, and adrenaline makes our hearts pump. The body has always spoken for us. Even when we didn't realise it.
Jul 10, 20253 min read


3 signs you're carrying past trauma
Sometimes, healing doesn't look like crying on the bathroom floor. Sometimes, healing looks like realising you've been holding your breath for 18 years and didn't know it.
Jul 4, 20254 min read


Anxiety, Playgrounds, and the Higher Purpose of Fear
There has been an interesting feeling around. I hear many describe it as "let's just get through this", while others feel a sense of the unknown, the question of "what will ever happen next?" tends to be the tone.
Jun 30, 20256 min read


When Leadership Hurts: A Truth We Don’t Talk About
This week I got pissed off, and I mean really pissed off.
I've been listening to incredible women who are strong, fiery, and just bloody amazing, and they're feeling caught up in knots and twists. They're unsure, worried, panicked, and they feel like their only option is maybe to leave something they've worked so hard for. Their confidence is low. They can't focus.
Jun 20, 20257 min read


We're married... but are we still connected?
Jorge and I have been married for 16 years and have been together for 22. Some of you reading this might think, that's baby love! While others might wonder how we even got here. But over the last two weeks, I've been reflecting on love and what it all means. Perhaps it's the conversations I've been having with friends and clients that brought it up and made me wonder: what does it all mean?
Jun 13, 20256 min read


Holding onto HOPE
This week, I’ve been sitting with a word. It’s not a big or fancy one, just a simple four-letter word that has been with me more times than I can count. HOPE.
Jun 10, 20254 min read


Calm in the chaos
So, when did the innocence of our internal language shift? When did it go from cuddles, milk, fairies, and pretend lands to:
Am I good enough?
Why don’t they like me?
How could I have been so stupid?
They know I didn’t know the answer, now I feel terrible…
Come on, don’t be so lazy
May 13, 20256 min read


The Quiet Power of Confidence
Confidence. What is it, really? Is it that magical fairy dust you spot in people who can talk to strangers, light up a room, make everyone laugh, and own a dinner table in seconds? Or is it the quieter kind?
Apr 28, 20255 min read


Untangle the past and rediscover your identity.
So here I am, writing about how our past shapes our current or old identities and how to break away and rediscover your true identity.
Apr 21, 20255 min read


Building Boundaries for Mental Clarity
When did "no" become a dirty word Somewhere along the way, we started to believe that being kind meant being constantly available.
Apr 1, 20256 min read


Decision Fatigue and Simplifying Life.
Over the last few months, I've been preparing for an exam to further my accreditation in the coaching industry, the ACC Exam, which...
Mar 17, 20255 min read


Emotional Clutter: Letting go of the past.
If we hold onto our past, how can we ever learn to live in our future? This is a question I ask myself constantly.
Mar 11, 20254 min read


Patterns of Procrastination and Perfectionism.
So, after feeling completely burnt out, I picked myself back up and started working through the pattern. How did I get myself into this.
Mar 4, 20255 min read


Understanding the Tools to Take Away Mental Clutter
The Three Tools For Mental Clutter I Use Daily. Here's what I've learned: mental clutter doesn't just disappear.
Feb 25, 20256 min read


Clear Space. Clear Mind.
Now, anyone who knows me well would describe my house as tidy, neat, clean, and, let's be honest, stage-ready. It's friendly and...
Feb 18, 20254 min read


The Invisible Weight of Mental Clutter
I was frazzled. I felt this huge weight settle on me—the weight of expectation. The "good mum" glow I'd been basking in? Gone.
Feb 5, 20255 min read


Why Mental Clutter Matters: Mental Clutter Defined
What is the cost of mental clutter? It has taken me four years to build up the courage to share this story and talk about how it all began.
Jan 27, 20256 min read


My 31st Letter: Imposter Syndrome
When I reflect on imposter syndrome—when I feel it—it's usually tied to fear: fear of judgment, fear of not fitting in, fear of looking...
Jan 12, 20255 min read
bottom of page
