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Powerless: From “I Wish I Had” to “I’m Glad I Did”
Powerless - is the feeling that you are stuck, that there is no way forward, that what is happening around you has more control than what is happening within you. At its most intense, it can feel like despair, helplessness, even a quiet sense of giving up.
Mar 316 min read


Social Emotions: Understanding Guilt
Over the last few weeks, I’ve been writing about what I call our survival emotions. We’ve explored anger, sadness and fear; these emotions are designed to protect us, alert us and help us navigate the world around us. They are powerful, primal and deeply human. Now we move into the next layer. The social emotions. This is where it gets really interesting, because these emotions are not so much about life or death. They are not about whether the berry is poisonous or whether t
Mar 77 min read


Survival Emotions: Fear
There is a very particular moment that comes just before we stretch ourselves. It rarely arrives loudly. It begins as a tightening somewhere in the body, a subtle shift in the breath, a flicker of doubt that feels almost logical.
Mar 28 min read


Welcome to Real Work on Emotions
Over the next few weeks, I'm going to have a deeper conversation and work on emotions. What they are. Why do they exist?
Feb 76 min read


A Letter About Change and Uncertainty, Home, and Learning to Trust the Middle
Dear you, I've been sitting with this letter for a few days now. There is so much I want to say. So many thoughts swirling around in my head and so many feelings that have been rising and falling over the past couple of weeks, and yet… every time I've tried to write, the words haven't quite landed. Not because nothing has been happening, but because everything has been happening. I think, if I'm honest, I've been in survival mode. Just doing what needed to be done: packing, d
Jan 306 min read


Allow your internal narrative to write a better story this year
The person you speak to the most, every single day, is yourself. And that voice influences you more than anyone else ever will. Internal narrative runs the show.
Jan 196 min read


Anxiety, Playgrounds, and the Higher Purpose of Fear
There has been an interesting feeling around. I hear many describe it as "let's just get through this", while others feel a sense of the unknown, the question of "what will ever happen next?" tends to be the tone.
Jun 30, 20256 min read


Quieting the Noise – When Comparison Is the Chaos
I wonder if we’re part of the problem and if we are the ones creating the drama and the mental "comparison chaos" in our heads?
May 19, 20253 min read


Calm in the chaos
So, when did the innocence of our internal language shift? When did it go from cuddles, milk, fairies, and pretend lands to:
Am I good enough?
Why don’t they like me?
How could I have been so stupid?
They know I didn’t know the answer, now I feel terrible…
Come on, don’t be so lazy
May 13, 20256 min read


Untangle the past and rediscover your identity.
So here I am, writing about how our past shapes our current or old identities and how to break away and rediscover your true identity.
Apr 21, 20255 min read


Building Lasting Calm in the Busyness
How do we shift our mindset to cope with high-volume work and thrive? People are collapsing under the weight of it all, unable to handle
Mar 22, 20255 min read


Emotional Clutter: Letting go of the past.
If we hold onto our past, how can we ever learn to live in our future? This is a question I ask myself constantly.
Mar 11, 20254 min read


Patterns of Procrastination and Perfectionism.
So, after feeling completely burnt out, I picked myself back up and started working through the pattern. How did I get myself into this.
Mar 4, 20255 min read


The Invisible Weight of Mental Clutter
I was frazzled. I felt this huge weight settle on me—the weight of expectation. The "good mum" glow I'd been basking in? Gone.
Feb 5, 20255 min read


Why Mental Clutter Matters: Mental Clutter Defined
What is the cost of mental clutter? It has taken me four years to build up the courage to share this story and talk about how it all began.
Jan 27, 20256 min read


My 32nd Letter: Nourishing the Body to Feed the Mind
Recently, my focus has shifted to understanding why food plays a pivotal role in my life - how I can better nourish my body to feed my mind
Jan 20, 20253 min read


My 31st Letter: Imposter Syndrome
When I reflect on imposter syndrome—when I feel it—it's usually tied to fear: fear of judgment, fear of not fitting in, fear of looking...
Jan 12, 20255 min read


My 30th Letter: Clearing The Clutter Cleaning Up Our Self-talk.
We are often told that self-talk is essential. Still, I believe it's time we understood the impact it has on everything we do & how we feel.
Jan 5, 20255 min read


My 29th Letter: New Year, New Lessons To Share: Clearing My Clutter to Help You Clear Yours
Through 2023 and 2024, I realised that I'd never figure out what I wanted if I didn't start clearing my mind. My "get fit, lose weight" goal
Dec 29, 20244 min read


My 13th letter: Is my need for control creating my worthiness?
Recently, the word control has come up a few times—whether it's a need for control in our plans for the caravan, the future, or daily chores
Aug 19, 20245 min read
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