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Quieting the Noise – When Comparison Is the Chaos
I wonder if we’re part of the problem and if we are the ones creating the drama and the mental "comparison chaos" in our heads?
2 days ago3 min read


Building Boundaries for Mental Clarity
When did "no"Â become a dirty word Somewhere along the way, we started to believe that being kind meant being constantly available.
Apr 16 min read


Decision Fatigue and Simplifying Life.
Over the last few months, I've been preparing for an exam to further my accreditation in the coaching industry, the ACC Exam, which...
Mar 175 min read


The Invisible Weight of Mental Clutter
I was frazzled. I felt this huge weight settle on me—the weight of expectation. The "good mum" glow I'd been basking in? Gone.
Feb 55 min read


Why Mental Clutter Matters: Mental Clutter Defined
What is the cost of mental clutter? It has taken me four years to build up the courage to share this story and talk about how it all began.
Jan 276 min read


My 32nd Letter: Nourishing the Body to Feed the Mind
Recently, my focus has shifted to understanding why food plays a pivotal role in my life - how I can better nourish my body to feed my mind
Jan 203 min read


My 31st Letter: Imposter Syndrome
When I reflect on imposter syndrome—when I feel it—it's usually tied to fear: fear of judgment, fear of not fitting in, fear of looking...
Jan 125 min read


My 30th Letter: Clearing The Clutter Cleaning Up Our Self-talk.
We are often told that self-talk is essential. Still, I believe it's time we understood the impact it has on everything we do & how we feel.
Jan 55 min read


My 29th Letter: New Year, New Lessons To Share: Clearing My Clutter to Help You Clear Yours
Through 2023 and 2024, I realised that I'd never figure out what I wanted if I didn't start clearing my mind. My "get fit, lose weight" goal
Dec 29, 20244 min read


My 27th Letter: Focusing The Lense On The Leading Lady
Ever look in the mirror and get a shock? You might say, "Yes, Vikki, all the time!" But for me, this moment was different.
Dec 15, 20244 min read


Internal Mirrors: Finding Clarity in a Chaotic World
I've been reflecting on what happens when our focus turns inward and we become so absorbed in our needs and worries that we forget the world
Oct 24, 20243 min read


The Language I Use: How the Words We Choose Shape Our Self-Perception
Language isn't just about the words we say; it's about the beliefs they carry. Often, these beliefs are rooted in outdated narratives.
Aug 28, 20243 min read


My 14th letter: The language you wear - let's talk about your "word wardrobe."
I like to describe our internal and external language as a personal "word wardrobe".
Aug 26, 20244 min read


My 13th letter: Is my need for control creating my worthiness?
Recently, the word control has come up a few times—whether it's a need for control in our plans for the caravan, the future, or daily chores
Aug 19, 20245 min read


My 11th letter: Is it too late to feel a connection?
When do I feel connected? Who do I feel connected to? And what has to happen for me to feel it? And, can we actually 'feel' a connection?
Aug 5, 20245 min read


My 3rd letter: Where did this fear of failure come from?
I found a large part of my thinking revolving around the fear of failure. Many conversations have come up about it, and it got me wondering.
Jun 9, 20245 min read


Reminder: It’s never too late to be what you might have been - the myth of unfulfilled potential.
Many of us wander through life with a nagging feeling of unfulfilled potential, like a smartphone running on low power mode.
Mar 5, 20242 min read


Clear Thoughts, Brighter Paths: Four Steps to Mental Clarity
Gaining mental clarity is less about quieting the mental noise. Here's a practical approach to finding clarity amidst the chaos.
Jan 4, 20243 min read


Decoding the Layers of Fear: Understanding its Three Levels
Fear. It's an emotion so potent that it can cripple even the strongest among us. However, what if we told you that understanding fear's...
Sep 7, 20233 min read


Breaking Free from Your Mind's Projections: How to Challenge Your Thoughts and Embrace Reality
You wake up in the morning, stumble into the bathroom, look in the mirror, and immediately start telling yourself a story. That...
Aug 15, 20233 min read
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