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A Soft Landing That Didn't Land: What happens when you outgrow your own life
It's a strange thing to step back into your life and feel slightly like a guest in it. Nothing's wrong on the surface. But there's an internal mismatch.
A quiet discomfort that's hard to name. It's a familiar pair of shoes. Same shoes, same colour, same size. But feels like I'm wearing the left shoe on the right foot, and the right shoe on the left.
Jul 31, 20253 min read


How to Spot the Silent Ways You’re Measuring Your Worth
The lunch tin isn't just a container of food. It's a mirror. Of our intentions. Our pressures. Our need to nourish, yes, but also to prove that we have 'done it', that we are good, that we are enough.
Jul 25, 20254 min read


The Time Triage Trick That Changed Everything
I know what it’s like to hold everything so tightly that you start to lose your shape. To smile and say, “I’ve got it,” when really bits of you are leaking out quietly in the form of snappy words, heavy sighs, evil glances at your partner, or that ever-growing feeling of resentment of life you don’t want to admit.
Jul 18, 20253 min read


What Your Body Language Says Before You Speak (and Why It Matters More Than You Think)
Stress shows up in tense shoulders. Anxiety lives in a clenched jaw. Anger tightens the fists. Love flutters through our tummies, and adrenaline makes our hearts pump. The body has always spoken for us. Even when we didn't realise it.
Jul 10, 20253 min read


3 signs you're carrying past trauma
Sometimes, healing doesn't look like crying on the bathroom floor. Sometimes, healing looks like realising you've been holding your breath for 18 years and didn't know it.
Jul 4, 20254 min read


Anxiety, Playgrounds, and the Higher Purpose of Fear
There has been an interesting feeling around. I hear many describe it as "let's just get through this", while others feel a sense of the unknown, the question of "what will ever happen next?" tends to be the tone.
Jun 30, 20256 min read


When Leadership Hurts: A Truth We Don’t Talk About
This week I got pissed off, and I mean really pissed off.
I've been listening to incredible women who are strong, fiery, and just bloody amazing, and they're feeling caught up in knots and twists. They're unsure, worried, panicked, and they feel like their only option is maybe to leave something they've worked so hard for. Their confidence is low. They can't focus.
Jun 20, 20257 min read


We're married... but are we still connected?
Jorge and I have been married for 16 years and have been together for 22. Some of you reading this might think, that's baby love! While others might wonder how we even got here. But over the last two weeks, I've been reflecting on love and what it all means. Perhaps it's the conversations I've been having with friends and clients that brought it up and made me wonder: what does it all mean?
Jun 13, 20256 min read


Holding onto HOPE
This week, I’ve been sitting with a word. It’s not a big or fancy one, just a simple four-letter word that has been with me more times than I can count. HOPE.
Jun 10, 20254 min read


50 letters. 50 lessons in life. And a poem from my heart.
Fifty weeks of showing up to the page and myself. Fifty weeks (fifty lessons) of sharing the tangled thoughts, hidden fears, messy contradictions, and quiet revelations that come with being a woman, a mother, a partner, a coach, and most of all… a human.
May 27, 20255 min read


Quieting the Noise – When Comparison Is the Chaos
I wonder if we’re part of the problem and if we are the ones creating the drama and the mental "comparison chaos" in our heads?
May 19, 20253 min read


Calm in the chaos
So, when did the innocence of our internal language shift? When did it go from cuddles, milk, fairies, and pretend lands to:
Am I good enough?
Why don’t they like me?
How could I have been so stupid?
They know I didn’t know the answer, now I feel terrible…
Come on, don’t be so lazy
May 13, 20256 min read


Finding Joy in Simplicity
The other day I walked into my local fruit and veg shop and found perfectly fresh strawberries on sale for $1.42. Jackpot! That little thrill reminded me that joy doesn’t need a big stage. And honestly, what’s ever truly perfect?
May 7, 20254 min read


The Quiet Power of Confidence
Confidence. What is it, really? Is it that magical fairy dust you spot in people who can talk to strangers, light up a room, make everyone laugh, and own a dinner table in seconds? Or is it the quieter kind?
Apr 28, 20255 min read


Untangle the past and rediscover your identity.
So here I am, writing about how our past shapes our current or old identities and how to break away and rediscover your true identity.
Apr 21, 20255 min read


One tiny moment - a lesson from the world of retail and beauty.
When I first saw my mum put on her lipstick, I noticed something change.
Her shoulders lifted, just slightly, but it was enough. A sparkle
Apr 14, 20257 min read


Your Body Is Not Betraying You. It’s Begging You to Listen.
Our bodies don't lie. They're not trying to sabotage us; they're trying to speak to us. And it may be time to listen to your body.
Apr 8, 20255 min read


Building Boundaries for Mental Clarity
When did "no" become a dirty word Somewhere along the way, we started to believe that being kind meant being constantly available.
Apr 1, 20256 min read


Building Lasting Calm in the Busyness
How do we shift our mindset to cope with high-volume work and thrive? People are collapsing under the weight of it all, unable to handle
Mar 22, 20255 min read


Decision Fatigue and Simplifying Life.
Over the last few months, I've been preparing for an exam to further my accreditation in the coaching industry, the ACC Exam, which...
Mar 17, 20255 min read
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